Reflecting on past decisions: expressing wishes and regrets
B2
90 min
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Think about these questions before listening. Share your ideas with a partner.
Think about a significant decision you made in your career or education. What were the main factors that influenced your choice at the time?
If you could go back and give your younger self one piece of professional advice, what would it be and why?
Describe a time you felt held back from taking a professional risk or opportunity. What do you think would have happened if you had been bolder?
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The post-project review
Many professionals find it useful to reflect on their work to improve for the future. This process can involve acknowledging mistakes and thinking about what could have been done differently.
Read the passage below, then answer the comprehension questions.
Our team's latest software launch was successful, but not a triumph. We met the deadline, but the final product lacked innovation. Looking back, I regret not pushing for the more ambitious features we discussed initially. If only I had shown more courage during those early planning meetings. We were all so concerned about the tight schedule that we chose the safest path. I wish we had allocated more time for creative brainstorming. The real cost wasn't the extra week we might have needed, but the missed opportunity to create something truly groundbreaking. This kind of reflection is tough; it's easy to get stuck on what we should have done. However, the goal isn't to assign blame but to learn. For our next project, I hope we can be bolder and remember that calculated risks are often the ones worth taking.
01According to the author, what was the main problem with the team's software launch?
Sample answerAlthough it met its deadline, the final product was not innovative.
02Why did the team decide against including the more ambitious features?
Sample answerThey were worried about the tight schedule and chose the safest option.
03What does the author believe was the 'real cost' of playing it safe?
Sample answerThe team missed the opportunity to create a groundbreaking product.
04What is the author's primary purpose for this reflection?
Sample answerTo learn from the experience and be bolder on future projects, not to blame anyone for past mistakes.
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Answer these questions in your own words. Support your answers with evidence from the audio recording.
01What specific opportunity from last summer does the speaker regret missing?
Sample answerThe speaker regrets not taking an opportunity to travel. They mention it at the very beginning of the recording.
02What two main reasons does the speaker give for not taking the opportunity?
Sample answerThey say they were too worried about the cost of the trip and also that they didn't have enough courage back then.
03What advice does the speaker wish they could give their past self, and what does this suggest about their current values?
Sample answerThey wish they could tell their past self to be bolder. This suggests that they now value bravery and taking action more than they did in the past.
04In what way has the speaker managed to find a positive outcome from this negative experience?
Sample answerEven though it's a regret, they see it as a learning experience. They state that they learn from these reflections and hope not to make the same mistake again.
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Key vocabulary for reflection
Vocabulary
These expressions will help you communicate more naturally when reflecting on past decisions.
Examples
In hindsight — looking back at a situation and understanding it more clearly than you did at the time
Usage note: This is a great phrase to start a sentence when reflecting on a past decision. For example: 'In hindsight, I should have taken the job offer.'
A steep learning curve — a period when you have to learn a lot of new information or skills very quickly
Usage note: This can describe a challenging but valuable experience. You can say a project or a new role 'had a steep learning curve'.
To bite the bullet — to make a difficult or unpleasant decision that you have been avoiding
Usage note: This is an informal idiom that expresses courage. For example: 'I had to bite the bullet and admit my mistake to the team.'
To weigh the pros and cons — to carefully consider the advantages and disadvantages of a situation before making a choice
Usage note: This is a common, semi-formal phrase used in decision-making. For example: 'If only I had weighed the pros and cons more carefully before I quit.'
To kick oneself for (doing) something — to feel very annoyed with yourself for missing an opportunity or making a mistake
Usage note: This is an informal and expressive way to talk about regret. For example: 'I'm still kicking myself for not speaking up in that meeting.'
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Listen to the audio recording and decide if each statement is true or false. Correct the false ones.
01The speaker reflects on a travel opportunity they chose not to take.
02The speaker wishes they had been more cautious in the past.
03A lack of courage was one of the factors that influenced the speaker's decision.
04The speaker is optimistic about making different choices in the future.
05The speaker regrets spending too much money on their trip last summer.
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Complete the sentences with words from the box. One word is extra.
Word bank
01In , I realize I should have accepted that job offer abroad; it would have been an amazing experience.
02Starting a new role in a completely different industry involved a very steep , but I learned so much in the first few months.
03After months of hesitation, I finally decided to and ask my manager for a promotion.
04Before quitting my stable job to start my own business, I spent weeks carefully weighing the .
05I really for not investing in that startup when I had the chance; it's incredibly successful now.
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Choose the best answer based on what you heard in the audio recording.
01What was the primary emotion that the speaker identifies as preventing them from traveling?
02When the speaker says, "I should have just gone for it," what are they expressing?
03What is the main lesson the speaker gains from this reflection?
04Which of the following is NOT mentioned in the audio recording as a factor in the speaker's decision-making process?
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Reflecting on the past
Complete the sentences about reflecting on past professional experiences.
Match each sentence beginning on the left with the correct ending on the right.
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Definitions
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Discuss these questions with a partner. Try to use vocabulary from the lesson.
Some people believe it's always better to be bolder and seize every opportunity, even if there's a high risk of failure. Others argue that it's wiser to carefully weigh the pros and cons and sometimes let an opportunity pass. Which viewpoint do you agree with more, and why?
In your country's work culture, is it more common for people to play it safe in their careers or to take big risks? How does this compare to what you've observed in other cultures? Do you think this cultural attitude has ever held you back personally?
In hindsight, reflecting on past career choices can lead to growth. However, spending too much time thinking 'I wish I had...' can also be unproductive. At what point does helpful reflection turn into unhelpful regret where you just kick yourself for past mistakes? How can a person find the right balance?