Tipping culture: discussing consumer psychology and fairness

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Think about these questions before watching. Share your ideas with a partner.

  1. Describe a situation where you felt confused or pressured about whether to tip, or how much to leave. What factors influenced your decision?
  2. Thinking about your own culture or one you're familiar with, what are the 'unwritten rules' of tipping? For which services is a tip expected, and what is considered a standard amount?
  3. In your opinion, what are the main arguments for and against replacing tipping with higher, fixed wages for service staff? Consider the impact on workers, customers, and businesses.
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Watch the video carefully. Pay attention to the main ideas and key details.

Video script106 segments · click a timestamp to jump

I'm purchasing an office chair online and they're asking me if

I want to leave a tip,

25 2018% tip for what tipping culture has

gone way too far.

Nowadays,

you're asked for a tip nearly everywhere.

Are we tipping at drivers?

15 20% on a sweatshirt purchase.

If you're frustrated,

you're not alone a survey by bankrate.

Found that a third of people are annoyed by those pre entered tip screens and think tipping

culture has gotten out of control.

Businesses in cities have tried to move away from tipping,

but I don't see any kind of a future where tipping completely goes

away.

That's Mike Lynn,

a Cornell psychologist who studies consumer behavior.

I've done more research on tipping than anybody else and he'll help us explain why the US

became so dependent on tipping.

Why it seems to be everywhere now and why we're probably not getting rid of it.

Tipping really became popular after the civil war.

When formerly enslaved black Americans went into service positions like waiters and railroad

porters and the railroad industry deliberately paid them low wages on account of their

ability to work for tips.

And arguably it was this influx of service workers who were receiving low

wages that contributed to the growth of tipping by the early 19 hundreds.

As minimum wages were being established,

tipped workers were initially excluded until 1966.

When tipped workers were given their own minimum wage,

it was raised to $2.13 in 1991 where it stayed ever

since.

Consumers in this country are aware that servers make a substandard minimum

wage and that,

that contributes to their willingness and desire to tip them.

Some states require employers to pay just that tipped minimum wage to workers where some

states like California and Minnesota require them to pay workers the full minimum wage

and then tips are added on to that.

And those minimum wages affect how people tip.

I was able to get data from uh credit card payment system

providers uh on charge sales and charge tips in restaurants

across states.

And what I find is the smaller the wages,

servers are paid the higher the percentage tip.

In other words,

he found that people know their tips are how workers get paid.

So they tip more when they know workers are being paid less.

In that same bank rate survey,

41% of people said businesses should pay their employees better rather than relying so

much on tips.

But in practice,

people don't like that.

I've done the research where I give people hypothetical menus,

one where they have regular prices.

And at the bottom,

it says a customary tip of 15 to 20% is appreciated.

One where they say tipping is not allowed,

you can't tip but their menu prices are 15% higher.

He then asked people how expensive they thought the restaurant was.

People overwhelmingly thought the menu with the 15% higher prices was more

expensive than a menu where they would tip 15% or more.

Anyway,

other menus that stated in 18 or 15% gratuity would be automatically added were

also viewed as more expensive.

We're not rational,

we're cognitive misers.

We don't like to add all of the factors together and make logical

rational comparisons.

We do quick and dirty heuristics.

It's called price partitioning.

You see it with hotel listings or concert tickets with all kinds of fees tacked on at the

end.

Partitioning prices often makes things seem less expensive than if you were

to build all of the cost and be upfront in one big price,

which is one of the reasons you're seeing tipping just about everywhere.

Now,

post COVID,

we've experienced inflation and full employment

and service establishments have to compete for

employees which means paying them more,

but paying them more requires them to raise prices and customers are already facing

inflation.

And and so what's a business to do?

And I think that tipping is a way to address that problem,

a good faith effort on the part of,

of businesses to say I need to pay my employees more,

but I don't want to raise my prices too much on you guys.

So,

are people really tipping 20% for self-service or counter service?

According to that bank rate study,

the vast majority of people are still always tipping servers or wait staff at a sit down

restaurant from what we've learned from Dr Lin studies.

Probably in part because they know those workers depend on tip.

But when getting coffee,

not as many,

when picking up,

take out even fewer.

So just because someone's asking for a tip doesn't mean it's customary doesn't mean everyone else

is giving the new technology kind of hides from us.

What the actual behavioral norms are tipping was seen as

un-american even in the 18 hundreds,

in the 19 hundreds.

Polls showed Americans wanting to get rid of tipping today.

Two thirds of Americans have a negative view of tipping,

but it's so ingrained into American price models and policies that tipping is

probably here to stay.

But where and how much you tip is still up to you.

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Answer these questions in your own words. Support your answers with evidence from the video.

01According to the video, what is the historical reason for tipping becoming popular in the United States after the Civil War?
Sample answerThe video explains that after the Civil War, many formerly enslaved Black Americans began working in service jobs. Industries, like the railroads, deliberately paid them very low wages, with the expectation that they would earn the rest of their income from tips.
02How does the minimum wage for servers in different states affect the amount customers choose to tip?
Sample answerThe expert in the video found that customers tend to tip a higher percentage in states where the minimum wage for tipped workers is lower. This suggests that customers are aware that these workers rely more heavily on tips to earn a living.
03Why might a restaurant owner prefer to keep menu prices lower and encourage tipping, rather than raising prices and eliminating tips?
Sample answerIt's because of a psychological trick called 'price partitioning'. The video explains that customers perceive a menu with lower prices as less expensive, even if they end up paying the same amount or more after adding a tip. An all-inclusive higher price seems more expensive upfront.
04In what way have recent economic factors, like inflation, influenced the spread of tipping to more types of services?
Sample answerPost-COVID, businesses need to pay employees more to keep them, but they don't want to raise their prices too much because customers are already dealing with inflation. So, they use tipping prompts as a way to increase employee pay without making the main price of their product seem too high.
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Vocabulary

Vocabulary
These expressions will help you communicate more naturally about this topic.
A bone of contention — a subject or issue that people disagree or argue about strongly.
Usage note: This is a common idiom used in both formal and informal discussions. You can say, 'The percentage to tip is often a bone of contention among friends sharing a bill.'
Feel obliged to do something — to feel that you have a moral or social duty to do something, even if you don't want to.
Usage note: Use this to describe the social pressure you feel in a situation. For example, 'With the payment machine right in front of me, I felt obliged to add a tip.'
Factor something in — to include a particular fact or amount when you are calculating something or making a decision.
Usage note: This is a common phrasal verb in discussions about money and planning. For example, 'When you budget for a meal out, you have to factor in the cost of the tip.'
Go the extra mile — to make a special effort to do more than is expected of you.
Usage note: This idiom is often used to describe excellent customer service that deserves recognition. You could say, 'I'm happy to tip generously when a server really goes the extra mile.'
Discretionary payment — an amount of money that you can decide whether to pay or not, based on your own judgment.
Usage note: 'Discretionary' is a useful adjective for topics related to finance and choice. A tip is technically a discretionary payment, but in some cultures, it doesn't feel that way.
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Decide if each statement is true or false. Correct the false ones.

01The expert featured in the video believes that the practice of tipping is unlikely to disappear completely in the US.
02The federal minimum wage for tipped workers has been consistently raised every decade since 1991.
03The video suggests that while tipping is expected for servers in sit-down restaurants, it is less common for services like getting coffee or picking up takeout.
04According to research mentioned in the video, customers perceive a menu with an automatic gratuity added as more expensive than one with lower prices where they are expected to tip.
05A recent survey found that the majority of Americans have a positive or neutral view of tipping.
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Complete the sentences with words from the box. One word is extra.

Word bank
01Even though the service was average, I felt to leave a tip because of the social pressure.
02In many countries, a service charge is included in the bill, making any extra tip a purely payment.
03The fairness of tipping based on a percentage of the bill is a major bone of for many customers.
04I always tip more generously when a server has clearly gone the to make our dining experience special.
05When budgeting for a meal out, you should remember that the final cost hasn't the tip yet.
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Choose the best answer based on what you heard in the video.

01According to the video, what does the term 'cognitive misers' describe in the context of consumer behavior?
02How did the Cornell psychologist, Mike Lynn, gather data to study the relationship between server wages and tip percentages?
03What was the general public sentiment towards tipping in the US during the 19th and 20th centuries, as mentioned in the video?
04Which of the following is NOT mentioned in the video as a factor contributing to the current state of tipping culture?
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Perspectives on tipping

How do these ideas about tipping and service connect? Test your understanding of common phrases and concepts.

Match the beginning of each sentence on the left with its correct ending on the right.

Drag or click to match
Definitions
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Discuss these questions with a partner. Try to use vocabulary from the lesson.

  1. The video mentions that pre-entered tip screens are a major bone of contention. Do these systems make tipping less of a genuine discretionary payment for good service? Discuss whether you ever feel obliged to select a higher tip than you wanted to because of this technology.
  2. In many countries, people don't need to factor in a worker's low base salary when tipping. How does this change the dynamic? Is tipping in your culture primarily a reward for staff who go the extra mile, or has it become an expected, almost mandatory, part of the transaction?
  3. Considering the arguments in the video, do you believe tipping culture is fundamentally fair? Debate whether a system based on discretionary payments is better or worse for service workers' financial stability compared to a system with higher, fixed wages and no tips.